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Dean Tong is *not* an Attorney. Nothing published herein should be taken to be construed as *legal advise*. Mr. Tong does not give legal advice to the public at this his website, via phone, or in person. As an expert, he does consult on cases and offers assistance to licensed attorneys under their direct supervision and guidance. Published text at this website should be construed to be general information, only, and not legal advice. If you are seeking legal advice, please consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

In addition, Mr. Tong is neither a clearinghouse for referrals to attorneys or expert witnesses, nor an activist. Please do not query him for lawyer referrals unless you plan to first retain him on your case as forensic consultant.


Why Dean Tong may be necessary for your case?

Dean Tong is:

  • Knowledgeable
  • Experienced
  • Adept in Assisting Attorneys Relative to the Application of Science to the Law
  • A Consultant with a Very Successful Track Record

Wouldn't You Rather Have The Guy Who Wrote The Book Consult On Your Case?

Mr. Tong provides the following forensic consultative service for Attorneys, unjustly accused parents, and parents embroiled in acrimonius custody battles without abuse allegations as a Nationally Recognized Expert on the issue of false accusations. Dean Tong qualifies as an expert in false child abuse accusations cases under Florida Statute Ch. 90.702, and under Federal Rule of Evidence 702.

In December 2001, Mr. Tong was qualified as and tendered as an expert witness by Attorney - State Legislator Charles Rusty Webb in Case. No. 98-D-47, Drake v. Drake, out of Parkersburg, West Virginia. If you are interested in a copy of Mr. Tong's transcript testimony and/or are considering his services as an expert witness, please call 813.657.4930 or send an e-mail to DeanTong@aol.com

ELUSIVE INNOCENCE

Areas of concentration in which Mr. Tong can testify as Expert Witness:

  • SAID (Sexual Allegations In Divorce) Syndrome
  • PA (Parental Alienation) v. PAS (Parental Alienation Syndrome)
  • Borderline Personality Disorder relative to false abuse accusations
  • General CPS (Child Protective Services) handling of cases
  • Children's Suggestibilities & Memories
  • Proper v. Improper (e.g. anatomically exaggerated dolls) Interview Protocols of allegedly abused children

Mr. Tong accepts the following types of cases in criminal, juvenile, family, and/or administrative (child abuse registry) court, nationally, on a consulting basis: alleged physical child abuse (includes alleged Shaken Baby Syndrome), alleged sexual child abuse (within a divorce/custody battle, or not), alleged failure to protect, alleged medical neglect (including failure to thrive), alleged psychological child abuse (Parental Alienation), alleged child-on-child abuse, and alleged domestic violence (spousal abuse). If you have a question relative to whether or not Mr. Tong can help you please feel free to call 813.657.4930 or send an e-mail to DeanTong@aol.com

Please see Mr. Tongs CV here.

Have YOU been unjustly accused of child abuse, sexual child abuse, physical abuse, child neglect, "repressed" memories, parental alienation syndrome, munchausen syndrome by proxy (Factitious Disorder), or domestic violence? Is your child at-risk in the custody of a parent who suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder? Is your attorney "sitting back" and "waiting to see what the other side does"? Has he/she penned a strategy to obtain the equitable relief you are seeking? Are you and your court cases suffering from flawed professional direction and guidance?

Consultant and Book Author Dean Tong will peruse your file and opine on the same. He'll perform an Internet Search for your State. He'll speak with your legal counsel. He'll query "his" experts. And, he'll devise a roadmap in which you can prove your innocence and impeach the credibility of your false accuser(s). His critique will take you where your attorney has not...to justice! Moreover, if your attorney is suffering from "Let's Wait And See What Happens Syndrome", and/or if the Guardian-Ad-Litem on your case is recommending the parent who suffers from BPD be granted child custody, you may "require" a new team! Mr. Tong will find you competent legal and/or mental health practitioners to champion your position.

January 28, 2012

"Mr. Tong is a VERY knowledgeable expert who I recommend having as your consultant (and/or expert witness) if you are ever falsely accused of a sexual crime involving a child. Mr. Tong not only has empathy for your situation (as he himself has been falsely accused of abuse before and was vindicated), but he also offers you valuable advise, not readily available elsewhere, on what to do/not do to protect your interests and to position you for the best possible outcome in your case. Mr. Tong will work hand-in-hand with your legal counsel and will do everything possible to help you and your attorney resolve your case with the least possible adverse legal action against you (including working tirelessly with your legal counsel to have your case dismissed). Mr. Tong is readily available via phone and email and promptly responds to your inquiries. Mr. Tong came highly recommended to me by an attorney who specializes in child-sex legal cases. That attorney offered me two-words of advise when I contacted him.....and those two words were...."Dean Tong". I took that attorney's advise. My case was resolved completely in my favor. My advise to you is that you contact Mr. Tong immediately if you are ever falsely accused of a child sex crime and discuss your situation with him. Time is of the essence! When your freedom and future are threatened by false child-sex accusations against you, do not delay. Contact Mr. Tong right away."

Bill Hejl, Florida
407-921-7236
407-234-0628
bill.hejl@gmail.com

January 20, 2012

"I want to sincerely thank you for how generous you were with your time, but more, for the good work you are doing to help innocent people who are seeing their relationships with their kids destroyed. You are one of the good guys, and in my estimation, a real life hero."

Dustin Caldwell
678 776 7805
dustin139@gmail.com

November 28, 2011

"If you are reading this, you are already aware of the seriousness and compromised position you are presently in. It is extremely important that you pick the correct team for your defense, to prove your innocence. Your decisions now, may well affect the outcome of your trial and ultimately, your life. Mr. Dean Tong is well versed and versatile as a consultant, a trial expert and/or an expert witness. Mr. Tong has been specializing in false sexual allegations for well over 25 years and is well respected in the trial consultant, and expert witness arenas.

I can attest to the fact that, Mr. Dean Tong is aggressive, extremely knowledgeable and is a wealth of information and ideas. One thing I can promise, that when the Prosecution is introduced to Mr. Dean Tong, the Prosecution will soon learn that World War I I I has commenced in the court room, once the judge says, "Court is in session".

Mr. Dean Tong is no stranger to high profile cases, as he has been an expert commentator on the Michael Jackson case and most recently, the Casey Anthony case. Mr. Tong is meticulous and is a walking 300 gigabyte computer, with respect to laws, strategies, procedures and knowledge of law in Florida, as well as other states.

Another thing I would like to impress upon everyone, is that just because you are innocent, that doesn't mean you can't be found guilty, by an uncaring jury or a bad judge. You need the truth, determination and Mr. Dean Tong, by your side, to get you through the worst time of your life.

This testimonial is from a very happy, grateful and free man, who faced up to 60 years of incarceration."

Brad Wetmore
321-600-4003
deardoll@cfl.rr.com

October 20, 2011

Good morning, Mr. Tong. The jury came back with not guilty verdicts as to all counts last night. Thanks for all your help.

Carolyn C. Garber
Assistant Public Defender
Sixth Judicial Circuit of Florida
Criminal Justice Center
14250 49th Street North
Clearwater, FL 33762
(727) 464-6516
carolyngarber@co.pinellas.fl.us

July 21, 2011

Dear Dean,

In six months I went from having police detective’s at my front door and facing possible child sex abuse charges to having temporary sole physical and sole legal custody of my 5 year old daughter. This would not have been possible without Dean Tong. My soon-to-be ex-wife hired the most expensive lawyers in our county, made the most heinous accusations you could make against any father, and attempted to alienate and brainwash my child against me. Having Dean Tong on my team enabled us to turn the case around in a very short period time and minimize the emotional and psychological damage to my daughter.

Shortly after the false accusations were made, I hired Dean Tong as a consultant. I can’t stress enough how important it was having Dean Tong on my side from the very beginning before any paperwork was filed or court appearances made. He helped me every step of the way to do the right things, file the right paperwork, hire the right attorney, hire the right experts, and more.

I never even knew this kind of thing happened to people until it happened to me. I was completely blind-sided and totally unprepared to deal with what happened. I know now that anyone falsely accused of sexual abuse of their child who thinks they can just hire a local attorney and hope for the best will likely lose rights to their child. The system stacks the decks against you from the very beginning and many lawyers don’t understand and/or have the experience to handle the nuances of cases involving false sex abuse allegations, let alone give you proper advice for actions to take outside the courtroom.

Dean’s knowledge of just about every aspect of false sexual abuse allegations and the legal process associated with them were critical to my case being turned around. Dean advised me and my attorney on the selection of evaluators and experts, use of published research reports and studies, drafting of legal filings and counter pleadings, security and safety measures, and more. In my case Dean knew what was going to happen before it would happen. He anticipated the moves my soon-to-be ex-wife would make outside the courtroom and the moves her lawyers would make in the courtroom.

I want to thank you for everything you have done for me and my daughter this past year. I owe my current sole custody arrangement, my future relationship with her, and the future of my daughter’s emotional well being to you. I didn’t know anything about false sexual abuse allegations until it happened to me. I was completely blind-sided and totally unprepared to deal with what happened and you helped me through it every step of the way. What I now know is that anyone who is falsely accused of sexually abusing a child who thinks they can just hire a local attorney and hope for the best is taking an enormous risk and the stakes don’t get any higher. The best decision I made in the past year was hiring you as a consultant.

If you are being falsely accused of sexual abuse, you must call Dean Tong.

Thank you Dean!

Damon
(Contact Information Provided Upon Request)

March 9, 2011

Mr. Tong - "I was very pleased with your Forensic Advisory Report and its thoroughness. I was pleasantly surprised at the fact you provided me with a possible motivation for the other ex-husband to participate in these allegations. Thank you!"

Carolyn Garber, Esq. Assistant. Public Defender
carolyngarber@co.pinellas.fl.us

May 20, 2010

"Thanks for your assistance at trial. You provided great information, challenged me, and served as a great resource. Too bad Mr. Feola did not retain you sooner."

John Byrnes, Esq. (Attorney-at-Law)
jbyrnes@ckblawva.com

March 2, 2010

"Bottom line, Dean knows this stuff, probably better than anyone in the country, regardless of the issues in the case. Dean was always two steps ahead of everyone else in the courtroom. His contributions before and during trial were incredible. He is well versed with all of the scientific research and case law. Frankly, there is no better consultant for a child sex abuse case than Dean. If your client has the ability to hire Dean than by all means do so. Mr. Tong works his cases very industriously. Your client will get their money's worth and more. I recommend Dean without reservation."

Paul Stuckle, Esq. (Attorney-at-Law)
paulgstuckle@yahoo.com

July 23, 2009

"Judge Feeley accepted your testimony as an expert and it was most beneficial to the Gallos in demonstrating to the Court that the forensic interview was not properly conducted and that the rush to judgment was based merely on allegations of child abuse, and that it was grossly inappropriate. Judge Feeley indicated from the bench that he intended to study the DVD of the forensic interview carefully and repeatedly opined based upon issues raised in your testimony."

Robert Riley, Esq.
502.777.4879
rwrpsc@aol.com

July 15, 2009

"Dean Tong knows more about false accusations of child abuse and what to do than anyone I have ever heard of. He is THE expert in the field. I write about and treat real victims, but I recognized that the falsely accused are very real victims themselves."

Fr. Heyward Ewart, Ph.D.
heywardewart@bellsouth.net

July 11, 2009

"Dean Tong - You are brilliant and amazing! Although I am so sad that Sean and our family has had to experience this ordeal, I am still very grateful for the opportunity to see "real experts" in action - people who understand the law and our rights to protection under the law better than those who are employed by the legal system."

Penni Barnett
eebarnett@ca.rr.com

Dear Art: Did you hire Dean yet?

Time is of the essence. Dean knows more than most attorneys.

Dean told my son's public defender what to do to clear my son of the charges. She had originally told Sean "Just take a plea deal and do a little jail time." Attorneys are useless. That is when I bolted into action and hired Dean.

Be prepared to send your son to California or Georgia for an expert polygraph test. This sealed the deal for my son since Dean works with the absolute best--AND--my son was innocent. Do not rely on a polygraph test from some local, ex-police officer hillbilly in the court jurisdiction where you live. Your son will LOSE if you do.

Do exactly as Dean instructs you to do.

Please keep me informed of the situation. This false child abuse crap is out of control.

Penni Barnett
949-378-4850

March 23, 2009

"When I was wrongly accused of child abuse in 2003 against my 4-year-old daughter by her mother the first and smartest move I made was to seek out the help of Mr. Tong. Despite not having had many cases in the State of Arizona, Dean jumped right in and worked effectively with existing counsel and helped to secure additional relevant counsel as well as the right experts to facilitate my legal team in not only preventing me from being arrested but also ultimately set me on the road to Sole Legal & Physical Custody - something I achieved last week and that I had been working for over 6 years to try & secure. Dean's tireless efforts on behalf of my child and myself have ensured that the father/daughter bond will not be broken. Long after others had moved on Dean remained involved and provided his expertise, opinion, comment and review of case related documentation and providing situational analysis of my situation to ensure that I had the best possible chance to prevail. I consider him an advocate, an expert, a friend and despite being a little abrupt at times one of the primary reasons I have finally managed to protect my daughter. Don’t go it alone when someone makes a baseless abuse allegation, secure the services of the #1 forensic trial consultant in the US and get your life back."

Drew Alexander
Prescott, AZ
928-925-4976
ilovebeingadad@gmail.com

February 14, 2009

"I have worked with Dean Tong on several cases. I have used him as a strategist and as an expert witness. He is a great witness. He has such a heart and is so compassionate about parent rights. He is extremely knowledgeable about his areas of expertise. He communicates regularly. He does his homework and is very prepared. I appreciate the fact that he is very direct - you don't have to guess what he is thinking or how he feels or what he thinks you should do. Also, Judges have no doubt as to what he is recommending because he is brave and bold to make statements regarding his research and thoughts. He is extremely honest. If he feels there is a weakness in your case he will let you know, and if asked about that weakness on the witness stand, he is honest which gives him great credibility with the courts. I hope I have many more opportunities to work with Dean, and hope you are able to work with him as well."

Lanis L. Karnes,
Attorney at Law
Lanis L. Karnes
KARNES LEGAL SERVICES
POSTAL ADDRESS:
P.O. BOX 10785, Jackson, TN. 38308
Physical address:
KARNES CENTER
2273 NORTH HIGHLAND, SUITE A
JACKSON, TN 38305
731-668-9LAW PHONE
LICENSED IN TENNESSEE
LICENSED IN VIRGINIA
LanisKarnes@KarnesLegal.Com
www.KarnesLegal.Com

February 1, 2009

"I thank you for your tremendous work on behalf of fathers everywhere, and very much admire your tireless devotion to seeking the truth in cases of parents falsely accused of foul deeds perpetrated against children."

Vern Mills
F4J, Georgia

January 23, 2009

"Thank you for your book "Ashes to Ashes...Families to Dust," as Norma's lawyer used a quote from it in the courtroom and the many false charges were dismissed due to your studies."

Kenny Coultrap
Seneca, SC
kcoultrap@juno.com

December 31, 2008

"Just a quick note, Dean, to send many thanks for a great year, for all of your help, for being a great “expert” to our stations, and to being available at a moments notice! Here’s wishing you and yours a very happy and healthy New Year!"

Jessica Curtis, Radio Coordinator FOXNews Radio
212.301.3463 Direct
212.301.5880 Affiliates Desk

August 30, 2008

"We went before the Child Abuse/Neglect Board on August 21st and used many of your suggestions at same and made a grand slam presentation. Mark received their letter today and they have reversed the 1998 report from 10 years ago that his ex-wife and oldest daughter made and re-coded it as UNSUBSTANTIATED. Thanks for all of your help!"

Mark and Marta Zacheis (Massachusetts/Missouri)
marta.adrienne@comcast.net

July 20, 2008

"Dean - You were of great assistance. As you know, I used a lot of your verbage in my closing argument."

Ted Stokes, Esq.
TasAtty@aol.com

December 10, 2007

"Dean Tong is the world's leading expert on false child sexual abuse allegations."

John Stapleton, Host of DADS on the Air,
Australia (www.dadsontheair.net)
john.stapleton@gmail.com

October 26, 2007

"Very interesting and informative and would love to have him back."

Jack Ford and Ashley Banfield,
Hosts of Courtside on Court-TV

October 10, 2007

"The Juvenile Court Judge found there was insufficient evidence to make a finding that Mackenzie was sexually abused. Thanks for all of your help!"

Stephanie Durstock, Esq.
Attorney-at-Law, Kentucky/Ohio
sdurstock@bfzlaw.com

September 7, 2007

"Dean Tong has been more helpful than all our attorneys combined (over 3 years) and I'm not exaggerating or kidding you. He knows every aspect of our case better than I do, his attention to detail is amazing, and he does not miss a beat. His knowledge of the law, cases to cite, procedures, experts, testing, and the psychology of this type of case is outstanding. We have already received our money's worth."

Stephanie Waterman
stephaniewaterman@mac.com
619.894.0888

August 7, 2007

"I am certain if Dean Tong is helping you people, you are on the right path."

Paul Wallin, Esq. Attorney-at-Law, California
Criminal and Juvenile Court Defense Litigators
pjw@wklaw.com, 888-749-0034

March 22, 2007

"I can vouch wholeheartedly for Mr. Tong's services. He is uniquely knowledgeable in such matters, and his assistance is invaluable. Mr. Tong is especially adept in helping parents successfully navigate an unfamiliar system in order to avoid common pitfalls."

Andrew Thibault, Florida
thibault_andrew@yahoo.com

February 15, 2007

"If you are experiencing the pain of divorcing an alienating spouse, Dean Tong is the guide you need to help navigate the maze of the Family Court system. We are so grateful for Dean's ongoing support and happily and confidently recommend his valuable services."

Brian Calder & Nancy, California
Greenbluefish@aol.com

February 9, 2007

"By now, you have heard that the criminal charges against me have been dropped. I wanted to thank you for this personally. Had it not been for you, I would never have known how to defend myself. I'm very thankful to you, Dean."

Rod Sissel, Iowa
rodsissel@yahoo.com

May 1, 2006

My Experience with Dean Tong

I wanted none of these things to happen. So I fought back with all the financial, physical, emotional, and mental resources I have. This meant hiring Dean Tong as a consultant. His service was valuable in many ways, including:

  • Referrals to top attorneys. Dean knew of an attorney in my area who has experience in winning these types of cases. Hence, I switched attorneys. Not only did my new attorney win, but he now he says I have a good chance of gaining primary custody of my children.
  • Referrals for psychosexual testing. Dean can refer you to get tested by some of the top professionals in the country. In my case, I was tested and the psychologist was able to write me a positive report. The psychologist was also available to testify.
  • Referrals to other experts. Other experts include, but are not limited to, forensic pediatricians and psychologists.
  • Help in case law. Dean would e-mail or phone my attorney with case law applicable to my legal situation. This would help my attorney with my defense.
  • Dean gives his opinions on legal strategies based on his many years of experience in this field. He would even give, in a respectful manner, opinions that differed from that of my attorney. These opinions would help my attorney make well informed decisions, and make him think about something he may have not thought of without Dean.
  • Helping keep your attorney on his or her toes. I don't think this applied to my situation, but I can see how having someone like Dean e-mailing, phoning with case law and giving his opinions on strategy keeps your attorney on his or her toes and not see your case as "just another case."
  • Psychological and emotional support. One of the harmful effects of false allegations of sexual abuse that cannot be avoided is the psychological and emotional toll that a false allegation of sexual abuse places on the individual being accused. To help mitigate the damage, it is very beneficial to talk to people. But because of the nature of the allegations, you'll find that there's a very limited number of people you can talk to. Dean is another person you can bring into your small circle of confidants to talk about your situation. Not only will he listen, but he will offer advice and solutions.
  • 24/7 support. Dean is very good about talking on the phone. Most times I called, he answered and was able to listen and give me ideas as well. He's also very good about e-mailing, often e-mailing responses within minutes of me sending the e-mail

Q & A

Can hiring a consultant make a difference? Absolutely! And in my case, it did.

What about the geographic barriers? Before I hired Dean, this was a concern as he resides in Florida and I live in Southern California. However, this was never an issue. We conference called with my attorney, talked on the phone and e-mailed each other many times all making the geographic distance a non-issue.

Is it expensive hiring someone like Dean? In my opinion, it's not. I say this comparing how much it would have cost me, both financially and emotionally, if a verdict was given that did not reflect the truth. My thinking was it's better to pay a little now, than a lot later. The potentially devastating effects of a false allegation are too expensive to think otherwise.

Michael Lyman
MikeL6920@aol.com

March 7, 2006

"I have known Dean Tong to appropriately select the right psychological expert in my case and his report was extremely useful in my cases. Mr. Tong knows how to blend the world of forensic science to the law and makes this knowledge available to the court system. He does legal research on laws pertaining to every state in the U.S. The services of Mr. Dean Tong blended with the services of your attorney will make a perfect combination. I highly recommend the services of Mr. Dean Tong as a Forensic Trial Consultant and he should be retained on Day 1 of your false allegation of child abuse or domestic violence case or anticipated high conflict divorce/child custody dispute."

Azber Ansar, M.D.
St. Paul, Minnesota
312-560-8799
AzberAnsarMD@cs.com

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I have found Mr. Tong very helpful in a number of my cases and all that he has been involved in have had successful results.

Ken Ray, Esq - (Criminal Defense Attorney - Arizona)
928-717-8352 or ckrpc@aol.com

August 12, 2005

Dean,

I wanted to take a moment and thank you for the assistance you provide for people falsely accused of abusing their children. As a child that has had the unfortunate experience to grow up from that situation, I know that you can make a large difference. My mother falsely accused my father of sexual abuse when I was roughly 3, in order to gain custody in the early 1980's. It worked, and I just met my father for the first time in 20 years in 2004. He and his family are wonderful people.

Tragically, the type of people who create these lies are the type of people who can't let them die either. I, like many, was raised believing the lies.

The children are the true victims of their parents' selfishness. I thank you for being able to make a difference to people going through similar things.

Thank You,

Corinne Carlson - A Child Victim of False Allegations
valcorie@hotmail.com

July 6, 2005

Dean provided me excellent resources around bringing hard science into my case. Doing the testing and having his expertise at my ready was a significant benefit to my mental well being and to my legal case. I slept much easier once I engaged Dean. You want to cover your flank when dealing with borderline types, and Dean will help you do that. Even if my case settles tomorrow, I still have the test results for years to come to cover my backside should an allegation arise. The $$ spent on Dean and the testing is the best I ever spent.

Dean has tons of research and legal knowledge at his finger tips and shares it readily. I have been amazed at Dean's willingness to make himself available, morning, noon, and night, 7/24, holidays, whenever, to answer my calls and e-mails. The man never sleeps. He's provided me info on PAS, SAID, custody plans, parenting plan research, you name it. The man is a walking font of information.

Richard Boucher, Oregon
richard.boucher@hp.com

June 1, 2005

Dean Tong is the best person to have on your team. In an ugly case, he is vital and both a source of guidance, experience and friendship. Dean has been a rock for Bridget Marks and an invaluable asset for me. He is available at any time and always responds expeditiously with advice that is relevant, on-point and most informative and persuasive in Court. For example on the Marks case, Dean was the first "consultant" we worked with and actually facilitated bringing on other nationally renowned and credible experts to our team. These other experts respect Dean and will join a cause if he advocates for the cause and client.

I really and most wholeheartedly cannot express how important and vital Dean and his participation in a case can be. I continue to work with Dean and fully intend on continuing with him in the future. His knowledge in the law and subject matter is unmatched. Moreover, he can and does offer personal support based upon his personal experiences which is invaluable.

My advice for you in dealing with Dean and his colleagues is to listen to their advice and trust in their guidance. I can answer any additional questions via phone, 212 867-1100. You will not regret working with Dean.

"As always, enjoy working with you."
Tom Shanahan, Esq., info@shanahanlaw.com

February 16, 2005

If you use Dean, you can quickly make sure her accusations backfire against HER. As you know, the BPs are very manipulative, and could be smiling at you while her attorney or somebody else is about to devastate you with some crazy accusation. I waited to hire Dean because I was still sucked in to believing my abusive psycho was going to come back again, and get help. It has been a very expensive mistake, as Dean would have helped my first attorney properly litigate many issues up front to prevent me from losing jurisdiction in my home state.

As a result of not hiring Dean in the beginning, I have been fighting 2 years, had to get a new, aggressive attorney, and just now got back to where we started. By bringing Dean in to put the crazy war in focus for my attorney, my new attorney was finally successful in eliminating the biased custody evaluator, who did not do his job from the beginning. This was done through me establishing innocence by complete psychological/psychosexual testing by one of Dean's experts, having an expert critique the custody evaluator, and deposing previous therapists who testified my wife was told she needed help. Even still, with my ex- denying every visitation, the judge was going to take it to trial just because she is the mom. My attorney was ready to appeal on the motion to eliminate the evaluator, made the judge watch every minute of the expert's testimony to get it in record, and she came out and granted new custody evaluations. This would have never happened without Dean's instructions.

So... I guess what I'm saying is:

  1. Hire Dean immediately (I had to get a loan)
  2. Quit writing about your personal situation on public lists (she will find it)
  3. Get tested by his experts to establish your innocence
  4. Conference Dean in with your attorney; use your testing as the platform to impeach her credibility as a delusional accuser

Ken Sharp
703-338-6969 (cell)
sharpk@zekeworks.com

November 19, 2004

"Navigating yourself through treacherous waters at night is dangerous and should be left to professionals only. With a false allegation on the table, not having a Forensic Consultant guiding your ship is just as dangerous (legal suicide). Mr. Tong was with me every step of the way and always took the time to help me understand. Thank you Dean Tong for all you do. I have my family back!"

Rick Anderson
New Port Richey, Florida
727-799-4027
drysolutions@juno.com

October 13, 2004

Dear Mr. Tong:
What does one say to a Man who has spearheaded a Dream Team that literally saved my life? First, I want to Thank You from the bottom of my heart and soul! I am humbled by your dedication and excellent efforts on my behalf. I implore anyone involved in these types of cases to secure your book (Elusive Innocence) and secure your services, immediately! The lives of our children and ourselves are at stake.

Mr. Tong, you will always be in my prayers, and you are doing the Lord's work in bringing Families back together and seeing that Justice is served and bringing Injustice to light. God Bless You!

Saved Twice, Alexander Ramsey
928-541-0398
moonglow@angelfireaz.net

September 15, 2004

"Dean Tong is very knowledgeable and has been a godsend for my case."

Bridget Marks (As Seen on Dr. Phil)
marksamsc@aol.com

September 9, 2004

Hi Dean:

It's been a wild 48 hours here in Kansas. The girls admitted to Susan Alexander in their last therapy session that they lied about all of the allegations and made up the allegations because they were upset with something I did. Whether that is true or not I don't know, but all allegations of sexual abuse have been thrown out and the girls removed from Travis and Tammy's home. Since then, Susan Alexander has asked to be "removed" of the situation, and will no longer be seeing the girls.

I am certain however, that things would not have happened if you had not made us realize we needed a new lawyer, and led us down the path to test with your experts, which ultimately led to the demise of this so-called therapist Susan Alexander, and all allegations of abuse.

I'll always be thankful for your help, even though I know we are far from done here, I can at least begin to see a little light at the end of the tunnel for the first time in quite a few months.

We'll keep you updated as things happen here..Thanks again for all your help so far, I'm forever grateful...

Mike Ross
mikentonya@cox.net

March 13, 2004

Dean Tong's ABC Primetime Thursday Client Says -

"I am a 51 year old attorney who was wrongfully accused, convicted and incarcerated in 1998 for having abused my four natural-born children, two boys and two girls, then between the ages of 2-7 years old. I was incarcerated for a little more than four years in the penitentiary system in Virginia. After subsequently obtained evidence was found concerning my first child abuse conviction, I was fully exonerated of all charges in a second jury trial in late 2002, and am now seeking to re-obtain my law license.

My original attorneys were found to have violated my sixth amendment right to effective assistance of counsel. They failed to properly discover key notes that my estranged wife wrote for, or directed with, the children. These notes were made before police interviews of my children, telling my children what to say to inculpate me. These notes were deemed to be highly suggestive and were crucial to the second jury's finding of "not guilty" in my criminal case.

Also crucial in my second criminal trial was the sage advice provided by Mr. Dean Tong, my trial consultant, who worked alongside my criminal attorneys. Mr. Tong worked to line up expert witnesses in the medical and suggestibility areas, he anticipated prosecutorial actions, and provided key defensive maneuvers in this highly specialized type of case.

Also, Mr. Tong helped me literally "prove my innocence" in subsequent civil court processes which I have instituted to reintegrate myself back into my children's lives. Of particular note was Dean Tong's advise to undergo psychosexual testing, including a penile plethysmograph test ("penile polygraph"), which I underwent on a live ABC Primetime broadcast conducted by a recognized national expert. Thanks in large part to Mr. Tong's fine advise, I have been awarded joint legal and physical custody of my children, just one year after I was languishing in a jail cell."

Bruce McLaughlin,
bwmclaughlin@earthlink.net

March 11, 2004

"You will be gratified to know that your assistance and suggestions to date have proven very useful. I am relieved to inform you that the 3rd complaint launched at our mutual client was deemed 'unfounded' by Loudon County Virginia CPS. This makes the third time that a CPS agency here in Northern Virginia has investigated our client - all unfounded."

John Bauserman, Jr., Esq.,
JBAdvocate1@aol.com

January 27, 2004

"You have provided us with the tools to win this custody battle by directing things from behind the scenes. The others who are visible get all of the attention, but you are the one that deserves special attention. Thanks for all of your guidance on our case. Words cannot express my gratitude to you."

Ralph Freedman, California,
rjfreedman@pacific.net

January 23, 2004

"I hope each innocent dad who goes through this finds your work as vital as we did, and I hope you know there are people out there like me whose depth of appreciation for your work can't easily be expressed."

Krista Boaz, Texas,
Krista_Boaz@anadarko.com

January 22, 2004

"Dean Tong is a superb consultant and an invaluable aid to attorneys. He has written several books on false allegations and PAS; but, more important, he's a tireless and knowledgeable fighter for justice. He knows the scientific literature on sex and physical abuse and can furnish attorneys with treatises and papers that really help in defending the falsely accused. He is an invaluable source in identifying expert witnesses.

So, I would encourage people to consider hiring Mr. Tong as a consultant."

Bob Gidding, Esq., (Attorney-at-Law)
rbrandg@erols.com

January 17, 2004

"My wife could not comply with the supervised visitation which was set up as a result of the custody evaluation which granted me sole custody. Thanks for getting my case targeted in the correct direction which took me from being underdog to taking full control."

Kennneth Schweizer, D.D.S.
Clearwater, FL
schweizer@juno.com

December 11, 2003

"Thanks! Your work was the deciding factor. I look forward to working with you again!"

Mark Bockstein, Esq.
8751 W. Broward Blvd.
Suite 305
Plantation, FL 33324
954-370-3862
954-370-9451
info@bockstein.com

Sept. 17, 2003

"I thank you for your great services and surely appreciate all of your help."

Tomoslav Novosel
Lawrence County, PA
tnovosel@earthlink.net

Sept. 17, 2003

"You were a saviour during my trials and tribulations. Because of your help all criminal charges against me were dropped."

Ron Woody
Ft. Bragg, NC
910-273-9004

February 18, 2003

"As an attorney practicing in juvenile law for the last 12 1/2 years, I can safely say that I have never had any one person be so helpful to a case or the administration of justice as Dean Tong. With his expert consultation and advice, including a real knack for finding the world's best experts for evaluations and testimony, Dean Tong has been a great help to me in fighting against a system which is inherently stacked against the accused.

Dean Tong should receive an award for exceptional service in protecting the innocent and helping children by allowing them the opportunity to maintain meaningful contact with their falsely accused parent."

Sincerely,

Timothy L. Lapointe
Attorney at Law
Mason City, Iowa
641-423-6288
landl@netconx.net

October 9, 2002

"I did not get in contact with Dean Tong until after I was falsely accused of child abuse -- more than 9 months after my ordeal with CHIPS involvement started. And all I can say is that I wish I would have contacted him 9 months sooner. If I did so, I probably could have successfully averted the last 4 months of my ordeal.

Dean can glean the pillars (and pitfalls) of your case quickly through his questionaire, and get things moving in the right direction fast. Speed is of the essence in these situations. I am sure, in retrospect, that there were at least a dozen people working on ways to frame me up in the last year.

Dean is not an attorney (as I've heard my attorneys say several times in the last 9 months) but he has a wealth of experiences in these types of cases that no attorney can match. And I would trust his opinion as highly as any attorney I've talked to about the juvenile code (and I've talked with more than a dozen attorneys in the past year).

His numerous books are excellent as well. They gave me a crash course in CHIPS and the art of false accusation, as its being played by numerous divorcees throughout the country. The anecdotes are helpful. To realize that there are others out there who have gone through a similar ordeal as I, provides some comfort and satisfaction.

The idea of compiling some of Dean's work into a quick reference, "Juvenile Code for Dummies" is not a bad idea at all. Almost no one in the lay public knows anything about these matters -- until they themselves are dragged in, like I was. And believe me, once this thing is over, you won't see me volunteering to talk about it at parties and social gatherings.

I am amazed how few people that I have met know what CHIPS is. And these days if you have children and are involved in a divorce, you better get a crash course from Dean."

Greg Schulz, M.D.
GSchulz@new.rr.com

August 22, 2002

"We feel fortunate to have him on our side. Whenever we need Mr. Tong he responds immediately. I would recommend Mr. Tong's services to anyone who needs an honest professional helper with an excellent knowledge and familiarity with the American Court System"

Dr. Eleonora Drechsel,
Mothers Protecting Children, Inc
203-374-0846

February 28, 2002

"Retaining Dean Tong in my case was the smartest choice I ever made. Like most people who have had the misfortune of being falsely accused in a SAID case, I found myself in a situation where I had little knowledge of what do, how to defend myself, and how to disprove the allegations. I had no idea of what to expect from the law enforcement agencies, or how to deal with them. Dean had a game plan, and right away he put me in touch with the experts who were able to present concrete scientific evidence of my innocence. His expertise and contacts were invaluable to me. I would recommend Dean's services as a consultant to anyone facing serious accusations of abuse. At the very least, getting your hands on one of his books should be the first thing you do if you are falsely accused."

D.F.
Elon, NC
live_laugh_love@juno.com

December 27, 2001

"I, as you are, was deep into vindication of the sins committed against my children and myself simply four months ago. I answered Dean Tong's questionaire and he responded. I had been accused of being "sexually inappropriate" with my daughter two months prior to the final hearing of a simple disputed-custody divorce case. I had immediately volunteered for a State Police Polygraph. I had passed the first test.

From that questionaire, I talked to Dean on the telephone. He asked me if I was "clean"? I replied that I was. He asked me if I was ready to prove it. I replied that I was.

From that point in time, when I retained Dean as the Quarterback of my Counsel, I have made amazing progress. The test results of the professionals that he directed me towards returned "sterling and benign."

We prepared our case for Court. Dean requested and read 1,350 pages of Court Documents that I had collected during the four years that I have lived as being "guilty until proven innocent". During those four months prior to trial, there were a total of 232 e-mails between Dean, the Professionals he led me to, and myself. Dean availed himself to no less than one dozen one-hour phonecalls in his effort to guide and advise me.

Dean, and the Professionals, came to small-town West Virginia to testify in early December, 2001. Dean was tendered as an expert based upon his CV, the three books that he has authored, and his memorization of the 1,350 pages of court documents of my case.

I have not seen my daughter in over 40 months. For the first time since 1997, I have finally been awarded an "overnight" with my two sons. For the first time since 1997, I have put up and decorated a Christmas Tree. For the first time in four years, I have a shred of hope of seeing my Daughter again.

For the first time in my life (I have never been involved in any court battles before this one) I feel that I have been accurately represented. For the first time in my life, I feel that I have received what I have paid for. For the first time in my life, I know that a complete stranger is "in my corner."

Do not ask Dean to Quarterback your team if you are not "clean." Those of us that are do not want his network of experts to be sullied by the dirty ones. Call on Dean if you are clean. Otherwise, call on someone else."

Robert S. Drake
304-984-1047
304-273-6351
boraq@earthlink.net

October 2, 2001

Dear Mr. Tong:

The hearing to clear Kyle was on Friday 9/28/01. He was exonerated! No one had to testify although we were all there for Kyle. The hearing consisted of Attny Mike Gough, the attny for Children & Youth, Dr. Talenti (emergency room Dr.) phone testimony only and the Hearing Officer. Kyle, Joe, my family and myself greatly appreciate your counsel and support.

Judy Seip,
Jules60158@aol.com

September 29, 2001

"Dear Mr. Tong:
Good news. Thanks to your help, the case against Ron Samuel was dismissed by the DCF. Thank you for your help."

Steven Lieberman
Attorney at law
Miami, Florida
Samari1912@aol.com

June 5, 2001

Dear Dean,

GOOD NEWS: The attorney Jabar, that I went to because a referral of yours, actually a referral of a referral, Mr. Jabar had told me, after reading over Dorothy's statement about my wife calling her and saying she lied me into jail, Mr. Jabar had said take the info on my own to the DA.

To make a long story short... Davis did not get back to me... after 2 weeks... I then called Mitchell... he refused an appointment... wanted me set for guilty... Went to his elected Boss, Crook,... talked to Crook,... showed the evidence... long discussion...

Conclusion: He could see that I was telling the truth. He knew Dorothy was the daughter of a minister and was telling the truth, and that also she was the mother of a Sheriff, and was indeed truthful... he therefore:

DROPPED and DISMISSED ALL CHARGES

He wrote a statement to that affect right in front of me.

So case is closed !

God bless you very much Dean for getting the RIGHT attorney !!! It took time, and we went through a heck of a lot of them, but Mr. Jabar was a gift from God, and so were YOU !!!

Take care !

By the way, Mr. Jabar was the BOSS of Crook YEARS ago in the county system. What a coincidence or another act of God !!! So Crook KNEW Jabar was truthful and knew Jabar could have won the case if he wanted to.

That is it for now Dean.
God bless !

Now onto the divorce trial , April 11th. (April 5th I have to show up to hear from the judge that the case is dismissed.)

God bless again !

John Kossowan
Augusta, Maine

December 5, 2000

"I was falsely accused four times of molesting my son. I had gone through a full-blown trial and the judge had refused to exonerate me. Shortly after the trial two more accusations were made. I was at a complete loss of how to respond. My sister found Mr. Tong's website and after speaking to him suggested I call him. After explaining my situation to Mr. Tong, he agreed to become involved in my case. His involvement was critical. He operates behind the scenes by providing a roadmap to redemption that includes assembling a team of experts that specializes in fighting false allegations. Within a few months, my new team was able to secure a new trial and indications are that the judge will find as a "Finding of Fact" that I did not molest my son. It is not sufficient to know in your own mind that you did not do anything. It is not sufficient for Social Services to find "Insufficient Evidence" exists to find you guilty. Without a court ruling clearing your name this issue will never go away. Mr. Tong is the conduit for accomplishing this."

Alex Wright
ajw80817@glaxowellcome.com

September 1, 2000

"When one comes across Dean Tong it most likely will be during one of the worst experiences in your life. We are a blended family who has worked very hard to fit together only to be torn apart by what I've come to know as THE ABUSE-EXCUSE. Dean Tong is not only your only hope in an ever unfair battle, but a compassionate professional. He provided us with valuable information and contacts that we would have not found otherwise. He responded to our family and individual case with concentration, effort and experience without hesitation.

I know that no one can truly help without having gone through this type of nightmare themselves. Dean Tong offered everything he promises and more - he has a honest, supporting approach. He will tell it to you straight - he does not give false hope or try to pretend this is not real and completely serious. I felt an immediate trust that I have yet to find with any attorney I have had thus far.

I fully recommend Dean's services without reservation. My only regret is that we had not found him sooner and I very much wish he was an attorney himself !!

The Deininger Family
East Stroudsburg, PA

"Thank you for your help and support. We could not have done it without you. You guided us in the right direction, and we were really impressed by your knowledge of events as they are and even before they happened. You were a God send."

Rhonda Kinsey, for my husband Bobby Kinsey
rhonda_kinsey@harte-hanks.com

"Dean has been a pioneer in this area. You can never go wrong by listening to what he has to say. His advice will help dig you out."

Pastor Roby Roberson of the Wenatchee Witch Hunt (WA)
roberson@televar.com

"My daughter told me in December 1999 while I had the children for Christmas break, that a relative at her fathers home was fondling her. I found Mr. Dean Tong through his internet site, abuse-excuse.com. At first, he didn't seem like the kind of person who could help me. After all, I believed my daughter, and had no interest in trying to prove someone was 'falsely accused.' I called Mr. Tong anyway, thinking that if he knows the game he could play it from either side of the court. I was right! In this short time he has given me the tools and confidence I needed to proceed with protecting my children. Dean has proven himself to me and I can tell you that he is an honest, competent individual who truly cares about you and the damage being done to our nations families."

Gail Valenzuela
gaildeen@hotmail.com
505-373-4514

"It is my opinion that Dean Tong is one of the foremost authorities in this country on false allegations of abuse, false memory syndromes and their underlying dynamics, especially as these relate to Borderline Personality Disorder. I have verified much of his research on my own and found it to be accurate as he represented it."

Alan Cheek, dedicated_dad@yahoo.com

"I would strongly reccomend that any lawyer or litigant involved in a custody battle with SAID Syndrome implications immediately contact Dean Tong, the sooner the better. His referreals to the leading experts in the field of false allegations of sexual abuse early in the case are one of the few life-lines available to the falsely accused. And for lawyers, the reference material with which he will supply you will help you hit the road running if you are not as up-to date as you would like to be on the psycho-sexual litertaure and tests available in SAID Syndrome cases."

Steven P. Combs, Esquire
Family Law Lawyer, Jacksonville, Florida
www.fladivorce.com
1-877-FLA-DIVORCE
info@combsandgreene.com

Dear Mr. Tong:

We received your recommendations re: Tom Lahey Divorce/Custody case. On behalf of Tom and all his family and friends, thank you very, very much for your valuable work on Tom's behalf. We are studying your recommendations and will be pursuing them.

You have given us a plan of action and a "dream team". For the first time in many months I feel we have a real chance of helping Tom defend himself against these malicious charges, as well as saving his children.

Once again, many thanks.

Elaine & Richard Lahey

"In the unspeakable hell of false allegations of child abuse, Dean Tong's consultative services are indispensable, not only for true victims (children and parents), but for attorneys - who are mostly unprepared, inexperienced and uneducated in dealing with the impending avalanche."

Yevrah Ornstein (CA)
415-488-4309

"Dean and his people are the best at what they do. He made me aware of so much that wasn't being done, that should have been done. His help is invaluable. I really think Dean is one of the best you can hire in the area of false allegations."

Corey Galvin (IA)
cojobega@netins.net

Mr. Tong, THE CHILDREN ARE COMING HOME!!!! We've waited for this day for 6 1/2 months! The charges were dismissed by DSS today via letter to Danah's attorney. The court date is scheduled for 1/22/99 when the judge will make it official. This has been an ordeal for Danah as well as all her family, not to mention what they have done to the children. I don't know if Laurie has told you but she is expecting a baby. She has been afraid to let anyone know because of DSS. Now we can also celebrate the coming of her child!!!

From the entire Roberson/Brannock family... THANK YOU!

Danah, Kellianne, Dylon Phelps and Kacey Varner
Margie and Clarence Roberson
Laurie and William Brannock, brannock@gateway.net

"Just wanted to share a bit of good news with everyone... my fiance, who hasn't been allowed to see or talk to his daughters for over a year, will now get phone visitation twice a week!!! It's a start. A special thanks to Dean Tong and to our attorney, Tony Schwab, of Stuart, Florida... I thank God everyday for their expertise and sound advice."

Marty Rapert, 3-14-00.

If you, or your attorney, are interested in retaining Dean Tong as a Consultant on your false abuse allegations and/or child custody case, Mr. Tong requires the following:

  • A copy of your entire legal case file absent child support information
  • A Timeline, which is a dated case chronology of events
  • His fee, which is based upon number of court case numbers, case complexity and volume of case documents. Please call 1-800-854-0735 to inquire.

The package, consisting of the case file, timeline and fee should be FEDEX'd to Dean Tong @ 604 Brentwood Place - Brandon, FL 33511.

DISCLAIMER: Dean Tong is not an Attorney. His advise and suggestions should be brought to the attention of your lawyer. And, he will be indemnified and held harmless in the event you do not win your case.

In the past several years Dean Tong has consulted on and critiqued abuse and custody cases involving the following 49 states: AK, AL, AR, AZ, CA, CO, CT, DE, FL, GA , HI, IA, ID, IL, IN, KS, KY, LA, MA, MD, ME, MI, MN, MO, MS, MT, NC, ND, NE, NH, NJ, NM, NY, NV, OH, OK, OR, PA, RI, SC, SD, TN, TX, UT, VA, WA, WI, WV, WY.

  • Has the state child "protective" services agency kidnapped your children and the clock is ticking against you?
  • Have you been accused of physical and/or sexual abuse and your wife "failure to protect"?
  • Have you been railroaded by your borderline estranged-to-be spouse and the system?
  • Are you involved in a protracted child custody battle and getting nowhere?

If any of the above scenarios even comes close to your case, Dean Tong can help! Tong offers his phone consultative services for a flat fee of $100 with no minimum time alottment. We accept all major credit cards for this service. Please call Dean Tong at 813-657-4930 and receive the direction and guidance your case deserves from an expert. to order your Trial Talk With Tong.

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Mr. Tong now accepts the following major credit cards as compensation for rendering his consultative and expert witness services: VISA - MASTER CARD - AMERICAN EXPRESS - DISCOVER

Dean Tong
604 Brentwood Place
Brandon, Florida 33511
Voice: 813.657.4930
Cell: 813.417.5362

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